Think Like a Monk by Jay Shetty

 

Note: I am writing this review without having finished the book.

I am a fiction reader and very rarely do a read non-fiction.  I picked up Think Like a Monk because I have a friend who really enjoys Jay Shetty on social media.  Also, like most people these last few months of Covid haven't been easy for me.  

I began reading Think Like a Monk as I do all books - flipping pages and reading chapter after chapter in one sitting.  Until one day I realized I might not be absorbing some of the wisdom Shetty was imparting.  I decided to slow down my reading.  Going back and rereading chapters.  Really thinking about what was being said and how I could apply some of his messages in my daily life.  This is why I haven't finished the book.  Yet.

I wanted to share my review now though because his book is being released this week.  The book is easy to read and applicable to I would say almost everyone.  This book is written pre-covid but I'm wondering if as I read on there may be an after word or last chapter that references the times we are going through.

I have never tried meditation and I'm not quite sure it's for me.  But I have tried a breathing exercise that Shetty walks us through and I did find it calming.  Also, my kids broke into an argument as I was reading that if you think/say a negative comment about someone follow it with 10 positive.  I quickly put that into practice in the middle of the fight.  Although it didn't work exactly as planned, it did end the argument and had them both forgetting their argument and looking at me like 'really Mom?!?'.

Haven't heard of Jay Shetty?  He studied business in University in England.  While all his classmates were going to parties and getting jobs in big businesses, Jay was taking every spare moment and spending it in a monastery.  When school ended he spent 3 years as a Monk.  Now he his a motivational speaker appearing on tv talk shows.  This is his first book.

Although I don't believe Jay Shetty planned the timing of his book I do believe it could be a lifeline for those struggling with life right now.  Think Like a Monk may not have all the answers but a few strategies that may help.  My advise - don't power through this book.  Take your time.  Also, check out Jay Shetty on Instagram for ongoing interviews and words of wisdom.

Here and Now by Santa Montefiore

 

Marigold is accustomed to helping those around her.  She works in the village shop/postal office helping everyone find what they need and send parcels.  At home she takes care of her husband, her elderly mother and her adult daughter Suze.  Now Marigold is happy that her oldest daughter, Daisy, is returning home from 6 years in Italy.  Daisy's nursing a broken heart and Marigold is happy to help her too.

But lately Daisy has caught herself forgetting things.  She's always been super organized.  But now if she doesn't write it down she just might forget.  A quick trip to the doctor tells her that at 60 these things happen - don't worry.

It doesn't take long for her family to realize that she is more forgetful than most.  Maybe it's time for them to start picking up some slack and helping their mother out.

I picked Here and Now to read because I thought the description sounded nice.  But quickly I realized that I had picked up one of her books before and couldn't finish it - it seemed overly descriptive.  I have to admit I almost put the book down and not picked it up again.  But I did pick it up again and I'm glad I did.  I thought Here and Now was a beautiful story.  I loved reading the details of Marigold's beautiful village.  Now I'm begining to think that the last Santa Montefiore book I picked up just caught me on the wrong day and I need to give it another try.

Bear Necessity by James Gould-Bourn

Bear Necessity is about a father named Danny.  He lost is his wife in a car accident nearly a year ago.  He almost lost his son, Will, also but fortunately he pulled through.  Since the accident nothing much has gone right.  Will won't speak - literally not a word to anyone.  His landlord raised his rent and his breathing down his neck.  He's also got a real jerk for a boss down at the construction site.

In a desperate move Danny buys a used panda costume.  He scrapes together a plan to start making money again and maybe get his rent paid before his knee caps get broken by his shady landlord's thug.  But time is running out and he's not sure the plan will be enough.

I thought Bear Necessity was a good story line but although it's not a long book there were parts that I thought dragged a bit.  There was a lot of swearing in the book that I didn't really think was necessary.  Although the cover accurately represents the book, I think it's a little too cute for the story.

The Kids are Gonna Ask by Gretchen Anthony

Savannah and Thomas McClair are twins that lost their mom in an accident when they were 13 years old.  They've known their dad but they've got a grandmother, Maggie, that loves and cares for them.  Maggie likes to be surrounded by people and hear their stories so every Friday night she invites a guest for dinner.  When Savannah needs a project at school their podcast is born and it's based on the Friday night dinner guests.  

Thomas has been wondering about his dad for a while so when a Friday night dinner conversation sways that way he gets an idea.  Why not try and do a podcast and see if they can find their dad.  After a few reservations from Savannah and Maggie they podcast begins.

The podcast turns out to be equally loved and hated by listeners but it's definitely gaining a lot of popularity.  The McClair's have teamed up with an agency and attention is getting out of hand.

I found The Kids are Gonna Ask intriguing to begin with but I did find it dragged on a bit too long.  When I found the book it was listed as General Fiction - Adult but I think it might be more appropriate in Young Adult.  Aside from some excessive drinking I think it would be appropriate.  I don't believe there were any curse words.  Perhaps the more appropriate age would be 17 - the age of the McClair twins.  Overall though I did enjoy the plot and I was invested to discover whoever the father is.

Dear Emmie Blue by Lia Louis

Poor Emmie Blue has had a rough life.  Her mom is hardly a caring mother.  She knows very few details about her father.  Certainly not enough to find him - she's definitely tried.  She's been on her own as long as she can remember.  When she was younger she had a great friend who's family always included her but after the father, who is also a teacher at her school, sexually assaulted her she's lost her best friend, any security she may have had.  Plus, she's become an outcast at school.

In an act of loneliness she writes her story and attaches it to a balloon.  Never did she suspect that Lucas was a lonely boy in France looking for a friend too.  After many emails and visits the two become the closest of best friends.  Lucas's older brother Elliot used to hang out with them all the time too until one night Elliot betrays Emmie Blue and they haven't talked much since.

Now they are older and Lucas is getting married.  Emmie was always certain that they would end up together and now she has to put a smile on her face and help her friend get ready for his big day.  It also seems she's not going to be able to get through this wedding without confronting her issues with Elliot.  Poor Emmie has never felt lonelier.

On top of the wedding stuff to deal with she's lives in her bedroom that she rents from an older lady and they barely share a few words with each other.  She's working in a job that makes next to nothing and she's barely scraping by for money.  Everyone around her seems to have it all together love; money; a home.

Emmie Blue is certainly a character to be pitied.  I found myself just hoping someone would love her and give her a hug.  Her poor self-esteem is rock bottom and you wish you could just sit down with her and tell her it's going to be ok.

I really enjoyed Dear Emmie Blue.  It was a fun book to read that had me wanting to see how things would end for her.

Grown Ups by Marian Keyes

The Casey family are a close knit family.  There's always a get together happening, a birthday celebration or a vacation.  First there's Johnny and his wife Jessie.  They got together when Jessie's first husband - Johnny's best friend - passed away.  Not right away, after an appropriate amount time.  They've had 3 children together.  They've been together for years.  Time for some people to get over it.

Then there's Ed.  Him and his wife Cara seem to have life figured out.  Two great kids.  They're clearly in love.  On the outside it seems they have no problems.  Ed likes to keep his head in the sand and pretend that's everything is great.  But is that really true?

Liam - the youngest brother.  He's had one failed marriage already.  Two kids he never sees.  He's been floating around living a bachelor life when he very quickly settled down and married Nell.  There's seem a relationship of passion.  But with how quickly they got married do they even know each other.

Grown Ups begins with the dinner that unravels it all.  Then the story goes back in time to explain how they got to this disastrous dinner.  Is there any way this can all have a happy ending?  

Sounds like a lot of characters and for a few chapters it was but very quickly you figure out who's with who and how they connect together.  Quickly you'll fall in love with all the characters despite their flaws.  Except for the one or two you are intended to dislike.

I've always loved Marian Keyes.  I'm sure I've read everything she's written.  I first picked up one of her books based on the size - I love a long story.  Even after 656 pages I wasn't ready to let go of these characters and have the story end.

Grown Ups is available at Chapters starting later this week on June 30th.

The Paris Library by Janet Skeslien Charles

It seems these days I'm only reading historical fiction; as if I'm trying to make up for all the years I refused to pick up a book not set in modern day.  But how could I resist a story about a library, the dewey decimal system, it's patrons and set in Paris.

The Paris Library begins in 1939 with Odile; a young woman excited by books and the possibility of love.  Odile's father, a police office, brings home an officer from work every Sunday for dinner in attempt to have his daughter married.  Odile and her twin brother Remy laugh and joke about each potential suitor.  

Against her father's wishes, Odile follows her dream of working in a library.  Things begin to change when Odile finds one of the Sunday suitors quickens her heart and takes her breath away.  Remy is also finding love with one of Odile's co-workers at the library.

The can only ignore the looming war for so long though and soon Remy is prepared to be a soldier and headed off to fight for his country.  Odile remains in Paris and is slow to realize there is a war happening in Paris as well.

Told in alternate chapters is the story of young Lily, growing up in 1980's Montana with lot of challenges thrown her way.  One day she decides to write a school project on France and who better to help then her neighbour Odile.  A unlikely friendship is born between the two but Lily wants to know what is the real story about her neighbour and why is living in Montana and not Paris?

At first I found The Paris Library hard to keep keep track of all the characters but like all good novels by then end I knew them all well.  This story is perfectly suited for those that love their libraries and a good book.